Category: Dating and Sex

The Friend-Zone: A Tough Place To Escape

But we would never talk about it afterwards because we were best friends.

This week, Doc Love, author of The System,” coaches a reader on the hard truths of falling for your best friend.

Hey Doc,

I’ve fallen hard for a close friend of mine, Ashley. We are both in our early twenties (she’s a ye

She Wants You Back

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Do I have the right to be mad at Lena for ‘cheating’ on me with this other guy when we were officially broken up?

This week, Doc Love, author of “The System,” says that when she dumps you, you don’t want her back.Hey Doc,I just recently purchased “The System, and read

Her Scars And Baggage

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Leslie shows all the signs of someone with low self-esteem.

This week, Doc Love, author of The System,”coaches a reader about a girl with plenty of problems of her own. 

Hey Doc,

I’ve been studying The System” for a year now and have read the book four times thus far. I’m i

Dating Resolutions

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Stop playing games, stop dicking around and, if you like a girl, it’s almost entirely up to you to make the first move.

How many of you have made New Year’s Resolutions for 2013? None of you, of course. Resolutions are for American teenagers with journals, trashy TV characters

She Assumes You're Gay

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A guy who can’t shut up about ‘scoring with chicks,’ and who hoots and hollers at the cheerleaders more than at the actual game, seems like he’s trying too hard.

Back in the days when men were “men” and Rock Hudson was a paragon of…

Performance Anxiety

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To make sexual concerns and performance anxiety secretive, or to internalize and repress them, only makes the issues worse.

One of the greatest sexual and emotional obstacles for men today is performance anxiety. Those who battle it on a regular basis know how crippling

Dating Mistake

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It was, for all intents and purposes, the proverbial car crash you can’t help but slow down and gawk at.

I spend a lot of time writing at my local Starbucks. I could work from home, in theory, but most times my ADD prevents me from being even the least bit productive unless…

Fantasising

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If it’s normative and natural to be attracted to or want to sleep with numerous people, then why would your fantasies be any different?

Thinking Of Strangers

Doc,

Is it bad to fantasise about another woman when I have sex with my wife?

Rather than focus on good and bad, or

Swizz Beatz On Relationships

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Swizz Beatz is known as one of the best hip-hop producers of all time, but his legacy will include a lot more than just that. He’s an entrepreneur outside of the music industry, working with Aston Martin as a designer, being the face of Lotus, partnering with Monster Cable on headphones and doing plenty of philanthropic work.

Swizz is

How To Terrify And Educate Your Kids At The Same Time

Children think like ancient Greeks: violence, magic and superheroes.

As a father I’ve never been good at listening to play-by-play re-tellings of Curious George DVDs, or engaging in conversations like, “Which is your favourite princess?” (Pippa Middleton doesn’t count). At these mom…

Exhibitionist Women

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If public sex is on the menu, try a public place where people know sex is part of the environment, like a sex club.

What Can A Guy Do To Please His Exhibitionist Girlfriend?

Dear Doc,

My girlfriend has a kink I don’t know what to do with. We’ve tried it all. She can only come when s