Category: Dating and Sex

She Doesn't Love You

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“She says that I have changed, she keeps criticising me about everything, says that my personality is not that of the guy she knew.“

This week, Doc Love, author of The System, helps a man understand why his girl doesn’t love him.

Hey Doc,

I’m from India and I moved to Italy

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The Key To Kink

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“For those who don’t know what a flogger is, it’s a multi-tailed whip usually made of leather used to strike another for pleasure.“

Learning About Kink

Doc,

I’m starting to get interested in sadomasochism and want to learn how to use a flogger, but have no way to learn. It’s no

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Parenthood And Ageing

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“You are only a family for a relatively short time — usually about 20 years.“

When I was a teenager in Holland, a Dutch band called Doe Maar had a song entitled “Pa.” The first lines, about a father, go something like this:

Sitting there now,

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The Best Inheritance

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“I think that the worst thing you can leave your child is an inheritance. It does the little blighters no good at all.“

A friend of mine once got talking to the daughter of one of Europe’s richest families at a party (you would recognise the s…

Relationship Milestones

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If you haven’t seen it, here’s the trailer for Judd Apatow’s upcoming movie, This Is 40.

Apatow revisits Paul Rudd and Leslie Mann’s characters from Knocked Up as they face middle age together. For some of you, much of the trailer is probably familiar territory if you’ve been with your wife or significant other for a number of y

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Online Dating: The Keys To Success. And Failure.

Online Dating Profiles

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“I noticed patterns of over-used sentences (“loving life in the big city”, “my mates made me do this!”) and began to compile categories these dating profiles fell into. And here they are…“

Recently, my male friend

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Sex Confidence

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“The great Ron Jeremy recently returned to porn after a life-threatening heart issue and expressed being nervous in his first scene back. It’s perfectly normal to feel what you feel.“

Conquering Your Fears And Gaining Confidence

Doc,

I’m pretty comfortable around girls, but

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Reading Her Signals

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“You haven’t even been out with this girl yet and you’re blatantly showing your Interest Level, which is a no-no. Like my cousin General Love says, “You have a lot to learn, soldier.”“

This week, Doc Love, author of The System, helps a man understand a woman’s signals

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Women And Moustaches

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“Facial hair says that you can squash bugs, chop wood and take care of women inside the bedroom and out. Moustaches are manly.“
Movember, or the month formerly known as November, is when men grow their moustaches for 30 days to raise awareness and funds to help find a cure for

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Keeping Things Exciting

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“Why wait until you get home to act on impulses that may fade after an awkward cab ride home? Occasionally, you need to take immediate action.“

There is a big difference between having sex in a relationship and having great sex in a relationship. A wise man once told…

Sex Education

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You thought that, between your high school sex-ed class and your own experiences, you knew everything there was to know about sex. But you were wrong. Not because you don’t have tonnes of years of experience (am I right?), but because there are some facts about sex education out there that you’d just never…