Category: Dating and Sex

Dating Mistake

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It was, for all intents and purposes, the proverbial car crash you can’t help but slow down and gawk at.

I spend a lot of time writing at my local Starbucks. I could work from home, in theory, but most times my ADD prevents me from being even the least bit productive unless…

Fantasising

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If it’s normative and natural to be attracted to or want to sleep with numerous people, then why would your fantasies be any different?

Thinking Of Strangers

Doc,

Is it bad to fantasise about another woman when I have sex with my wife?

Rather than focus on good and bad, or

Swizz Beatz On Relationships

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Swizz Beatz is known as one of the best hip-hop producers of all time, but his legacy will include a lot more than just that. He’s an entrepreneur outside of the music industry, working with Aston Martin as a designer, being the face of Lotus, partnering with Monster Cable on headphones and doing plenty of philanthropic work.

Swizz is

How To Terrify And Educate Your Kids At The Same Time

Children think like ancient Greeks: violence, magic and superheroes.

As a father I’ve never been good at listening to play-by-play re-tellings of Curious George DVDs, or engaging in conversations like, “Which is your favourite princess?” (Pippa Middleton doesn’t count). At these mom…

Exhibitionist Women

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If public sex is on the menu, try a public place where people know sex is part of the environment, like a sex club.

What Can A Guy Do To Please His Exhibitionist Girlfriend?

Dear Doc,

My girlfriend has a kink I don’t know what to do with. We’ve tried it all. She can only come when s

Lost Interest

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Eventually she said the dreaded words: “I need time to figure out what I want and to be myself for a while.”

This week, Doc Love, author of The System,” coaches a reader on the hard truths of lost interest.

Hey Doc,

I faithfully follow your articles and know you have

On To The Next

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I was shocked because I thought I read everything right.

This week, Doc Love, author of “The System,” coaches a reader on mixed signals.

Hey Doc,

First, I would like to say that I love reading your columns and they have helped me in more than one situation in my life. But I’m in n

First Dates

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As Paolo Coelho says in The Alchemist: “there is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.”

In my opinion, the action of finding your perfect woman these days is much like waiting for your dream job to open up. You know what you

Her Interest Level

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I don’t like ultimatums, which you’d know if you’d read my book. Ultimatums are not loving.

This week, Doc Love, author of The System,” helps a man understand a woman’s signals

Hey Doc,

First of all, I’d like to thank you for being there for us, on your mission to c

She Doesn't Love You

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She says that I have changed, she keeps criticising me about everything, says that my personality is not that of the guy she knew.

This week, Doc Love, author of The System, helps a man understand why his girl doesn’t love him.

Hey Doc,

I’m from India and I moved to Italy

The Key To Kink

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“For those who don’t know what a flogger is, it’s a multi-tailed whip usually made of leather used to strike another for pleasure.

Learning About Kink

Doc,

I’m starting to get interested in sadomasochism and want to learn how to use a flogger, but have no way to learn. It’s no